Monday, April 20, 2026

Our No-Spend Weekend of Margin

We had a lovely weekend. 

There was absolutely nothing written down in my planner and that was a wonderful feeling after a full week.  Some of my kids were a bit worn out from their busy week.  They needed a reset, a little extra sleep, some down time, some refueling, and some time in nature.  

It's something I don't think families are good at anymore.  Many don't know how to embrace *Margin* in the schedule but fear it instead.  However,  I'd argue that it is a wonderful thing to learn how to rest and recreate well together.  It might take some retraining of the mind.  Some embracing. A change of perspective.

Just because we didn't have anything scheduled doesn't mean we didn't do anything at all.  Having *Margin* gave us time for 

  • helping neighbors,
  • going for a nature walk,
  • meandering at our neighborhood park
  • cooking wholesome meals
  • catching up around the house and yard
  • playing games together
  • participating in our church community
  • We also did a city-organized urban walk.  It was different and fun. I loved it.  

Urban City Walk
Nature Reserve Walk

      

None of these things cost any money, either!  

It's a lie that we have to spend a lot of money to have fun and make memories as a family.  It's just not true.  There are so many free local things you can do to spend time with your people! 

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If you are always ending the weekend burnt out, why not take a few things off of your schedule and do something refueling...even if that means catching up at home and taking a nap.  ðŸ’™